Thanksgiving Service for Beryl Good – 27th January 2012

Order of Service

Around 45 people gathered at Parkside today to say farewell to our good friend Beryl Good who passed away on 19th January after a gradual decline in health over a number of years.

The service was taken by David Angell, who welcomed those attending and introduced the first hymn Immortal, Invisible, God only wise before opening the service with prayer

After the prayer, Beryl’s daughter-in-law, Yvonne, came up and sung Steal away to Jesus.

David read through an appreciation of Beryl’s life written by her son, Stephen.

Beryl Evelyn Good was born in 1921 in Maidenhead as Beryl Free.  She moved, at the age of 3, to Mossy Vale, where she spent the next 82 years before moving to Bethany Residential Home in Tadley.

Educated initially by her aunts, she later attended Elmslie School in Castle Hill until the age of 17.

Some of those at Holmanleaze, around 1936. Beryl is at the front with her hair in plaits.

War broke out when Beryl was 18 and she joined the Womans Royal Air Force as a Radar Operator, based near Ventnor in the Isle of Wight and it was there that she met her husband to be, Daniel Good.  They were married after the war, in Boscombe, in September 1946.

Their three sons, Christopher, Andrew and Stephen soon arrived and Beryl looked after the family while Dan was undergoing teacher-training.

In 1961 she took a job as a Wages Clerk at Maidenhead and District Laundry where she worked until she was well into her 80s.

Beryl with her good friend Iris Smith at Parkside's 50th anniversary celebrations in 2006.

In 1989 she lost both her husband, Dan, and son Christopher soon afterwards.

She had five grandchildren and one great-grandchild.

She attended the churches in Maidenhead all of her life – beginning at the old Drill Hall, before moving to Holmanleaze and finally to Parkside Christian Fellowship when the hall opened in 1956.

She moved to Bethany in 2007 and lived there peacefully for the rest of her life.

David read from 1 Peter 1:3-4, 18-20 and spoke briefly on the subject of hope under the headings The Features of Hope, The Foundations of Hope and The Focus of Hope.

The Features of Hope: Described by Peter as a living hope.  Beryl enjoyed the same living hope in a living Saviour who was her companion all her life.  It was also a practical hope that supported Beryl in every aspect of her life.  In addition, it was a certain hope that has now been realised as she is now with Christ.

The Foundations of Hope: The Christian’s hope rests not on what may happen in the future but rather what has happened in the past – the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead.  God’s Son paid the penalty of sin and all who believe on him and trust him may know their sins forgiven – as Beryl did.

The Focus of Hope: Unlike hope in the world, The Christian enjoys a boundless and limitless hope that can never be defeated or diminished.  Beryl’s hope was focused on an inheritance reserved in heaven rather hoping and relying on things on earth.

David introduced the final hymn, Just a closer walk with Thee before closing the service with prayer.

A short committal service, led by David Sampson, took place in brilliant sunshine up at nearby Braywick Cemetery, where we finally laid Beryl to rest.

Finally, refreshments were served at nearby Maidenhead Rugby Club, where Beryl’s son, Chris, used to play in years gone by.

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You can listen to the service by clicking below.  Please note that the service begins some 50 seconds into the recording, once Beryl and the family had entered the hall.

Thanksgiving Service for Sylvia McNeill – 11th April 2011

Order of Service

Around 50 people gathered at Parkside today to say farewell to our good friend Sylvia McNeill who passed away on April 2nd following a long illness.

David Sampson welcomed those attending and invited David Angell to open the service with prayer.

David prayed and warmly gave thanks for Sylvia’s life, emphasising her personal faith in the Lord.  He also touched on the fact that today’s service was a joyful occasion as she was now free from all her suffering and with Christ, which is far better.

The opening hymn was ‘When peace like a river’.

Following the hymn, David Sims read through various tributes to Sylvia, the first being from Sylvia’s sister and brother-in-law which included happy memories of Sylvia both growing up and latterly of regular visits to South Africa.

The second appreciation was from David’s sister-in-law which brought out Sylvia’s friendliness, fondness for shopping and prowess as a dressmaker.

Back of the Order of Service

The third appreciation was from Angela Cox who mentioned Sylvia’s various skills including her needlework and knitting at the Ladies Missionary Fellowship, her enjoyment of shopping and her companionship and help both to Angela and all at Parkside.

The fourth appreciation that David read was from Elizabeth Pearce who talked about various happy holidays that she had spent with Sylvia including Scotland, Florida and South Africa.

David’s final appreciation was a personal one and brought out something of his fondness of her voice, the exceptional skills in her working life and the joy of her personal salvation in 1979.

David then passed over to Philip Stanfield who gave a moving tribute about their fondness for Sylvia as a surrogate grandmother to the family.  He also talked about her willingness to work quietly, behind the scenes, for the Lord as well as various personal reminiscences.

Finally, Philip read a personal tribute from Rachel Simms which brought out a little of the sad decline in health experienced by Sylvia in recent years and the fact that she is now with her Lord.

Sylvia in 2006

The second hymn was ‘When the trumpet of the Lord shall sound‘.

David Sampson gave a short address which talked about Sylvia’s life and faith in the Lord Jesus mentioning Job 23, including verse 10 featured on the Order of Service.

David introduced the final hymn ‘God sent His Son – they call Him Jesus‘ before Philip Stanfield gave a short and moving closing prayer.

A short committal then took place at Braywick Cemetery, led by Victor Michael.

Sylvia was much-loved by all those who knew her, both at Parkside and beyond.  We are all thankful that her time of suffering is now at an end and she is with her Lord and Saviour.

You can listen to or download the service by clicking on the link below:

Recent Thanksgiving Services

We’ve recently had two Thanksgiving Services at Parkside.

On 27th January, we said farewell to Iris Smith and on 21st February, it was was time to say goodbye to Hedley Bray. 

Both of them had lived lives full of service to the Lord.

You can listen to the services below. 

Thanksgiving Service for Mrs Iris Smith – 27/01/2011

Thanksgiving Service for Mr Hedley Bray – 21/02/2011